[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.garnex.sk\/mozeme-sa-naucit-budovat-dobre-vztahy-a-vyvarovat-sa-chyb-aby-nas-domov-bol-skutocnym-domovom\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.garnex.sk\/mozeme-sa-naucit-budovat-dobre-vztahy-a-vyvarovat-sa-chyb-aby-nas-domov-bol-skutocnym-domovom\/","headline":"M\u00f4\u017eeme sa nau\u010di\u0165 budova\u0165 dobr\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy a vyvarova\u0165 sa ch\u00fdb, aby n\u00e1\u0161 domov bol skuto\u010dn\u00fdm domovom?","name":"M\u00f4\u017eeme sa nau\u010di\u0165 budova\u0165 dobr\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy a vyvarova\u0165 sa ch\u00fdb, aby n\u00e1\u0161 domov bol skuto\u010dn\u00fdm domovom?","description":"Vz\u0165ahy, l\u00e1ska, zdravie a\u00a0pr\u00e1ca s\u00fa oblasti, kde zrejme najviac pre\u017e\u00edvame, tr\u00e1penie, sklamanie \u00a0a\u00a0najviac sa n\u00e1s dot\u00fdkaj\u00fa. Domov je miestom, kde sa c\u00edtime bezpe\u010dne, prijat\u00ed a\u00a0milovan\u00ed vo vz\u0165ahoch medzi \u010dlenmi rodiny, kde jednoducho patr\u00edme. Domovom sa st\u00e1va miesto na zemi, ktor\u00e9 je ur\u010dit\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom z\u00e1zem\u00edm, tam kde sa \u010dlovek c\u00edti bezpodmiene\u010dne prijat\u00fd, milovan\u00fd a\u00a0akceptovan\u00fd. S\u00falad \u010di […]","datePublished":"2017-06-28","dateModified":"2017-06-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.garnex.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.garnex.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/69bd9b72104e3ccfb6214cbd23cb226f96c6ecf33a2a351fa1d4682235118df3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/69bd9b72104e3ccfb6214cbd23cb226f96c6ecf33a2a351fa1d4682235118df3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"garnex.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.garnex.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a282140_w2016_t1503941995.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.garnex.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a282140_w2016_t1503941995.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.garnex.sk\/mozeme-sa-naucit-budovat-dobre-vztahy-a-vyvarovat-sa-chyb-aby-nas-domov-bol-skutocnym-domovom\/","wordCount":752,"articleBody":"Vz\u0165ahy, l\u00e1ska, zdravie a\u00a0pr\u00e1ca s\u00fa oblasti, kde zrejme najviac pre\u017e\u00edvame, tr\u00e1penie, sklamanie \u00a0a\u00a0najviac sa n\u00e1s dot\u00fdkaj\u00fa.Domov je miestom, kde sa c\u00edtime bezpe\u010dne, prijat\u00ed a\u00a0milovan\u00ed vo vz\u0165ahoch medzi \u010dlenmi rodiny, kde jednoducho patr\u00edme. Domovom sa st\u00e1va miesto na zemi, ktor\u00e9 je ur\u010dit\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom z\u00e1zem\u00edm, tam kde sa \u010dlovek c\u00edti bezpodmiene\u010dne prijat\u00fd, milovan\u00fd a\u00a0akceptovan\u00fd. S\u00falad \u010di nes\u00falad vo vz\u0165ahovej oblasti p\u00f4sob\u00ed na v\u0161etk\u00fdch v\u00a0rodine, na \u017eeny, aj mu\u017eov (t\u00ed to \u010dasto neradi prizn\u00e1vaj\u00fa) a\u00a0pravda\u017ee aj na deti.\u00a01.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 D\u00f4veraBez d\u00f4very to m\u00f4\u017eme rovno\u00a0 zabali\u0165. Z\u00e1kladom ka\u017ed\u00e9ho dobr\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu je d\u00f4vera. \u010coko\u013evek sa stane, tak by sa partneri mali vedie\u0165 o\u00a0tom porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 bez strachu z\u00a0reakcie partnera. By\u0165 otvoren\u00fd a\u00a0\u00faprimn\u00fd, ni\u010d takticky nezatajova\u0165, ani neprikr\u00e1\u0161\u013eova\u0165.\u00a02.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00dactaKomunik\u00e1cia medzi partnermi by mala by\u0165 otvoren\u00e1 a\u00a0\u00faprimn\u00e1, to v\u0161ak neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee napr\u00edklad pri h\u00e1dkach, pou\u017e\u00edvame nevyberan\u00e9 slov\u00e1. Vulgarizmus ostane v\u017edy vulgarizmom. Dajme si pozor na to, \u010do vyp\u00fa\u0161\u0165ame z\u00a0\u00fast. Ak\u00fdmi slovami \u201eobdar\u00edme\u201c n\u00e1\u0161ho milovan\u00e9ho partnera. Jedna je pravda, \u017ee hoden\u00fd kame\u0148 a\u00a0vysloven\u00e9 slovo sa u\u017e nedaj\u00fa zobra\u0165 sp\u00e4\u0165. Sk\u00fasme sa na probl\u00e9m pozrie\u0165 z\u00a0druhej strany. Nie len ja jedin\u00fd m\u00e1m pravdu. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou sa nach\u00e1dza niekde \u201euprostred\u201c.\u00a03.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Kvalitne str\u00e1ven\u00fd spolo\u010dn\u00fd \u010dasJe naozaj dobr\u00e9 ma\u0165 s\u00a0partnerom nie\u010do spolo\u010dn\u00e9. Nejak\u00fd kon\u00ed\u010dek, aktivitu. Spolo\u010dne str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das buduje puto medzi \u013eu\u010fmi, vytv\u00e1ra spolo\u010dn\u00e9 spomienky a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 aj chu\u0165 na \u010fal\u0161ie.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Aktivity m\u00f4\u017eeme prisp\u00f4sobi\u0165 tomu, \u010do bav\u00ed obidvoch. Fant\u00e1zii sa medze neklad\u00fa. Spolu s\u00a0de\u0165mi je takto str\u00e1ven\u00fd spolo\u010dn\u00fd \u010das naozaj rodinn\u00fdm dobroden\u00edm. Ale nie je to spolo\u010dn\u00e9 pozeranie telev\u00edzie, \u010di sedenie spolu s mobilmi v\u00a0ruk\u00e1ch.\u00a04.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Priestor na vlastn\u00e9 aktivityZnakom kvalitn\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu nie je to, \u017ee str\u00e1vime v\u0161etok \u010das spolo\u010dne. Ponorkov\u00e1 nemoc by sa takto ur\u010dite dostala k\u00a0slovu. Svoj osobn\u00fd priestor potrebuje \u00faplne ka\u017ed\u00fd.\u00a0Pravda\u017ee ak chlap sed\u00e1va ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148 dlho do noci v\u00a0kr\u010dme, \u010di \u017eena k\u00e1vi\u010dkuje s\u00a0kamo\u0161kami denne dlh\u00e9 hodiny, tak asi nie je nie\u010do v\u00a0poriadku.\u00a05.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Nesna\u017ei\u0165 sa druh\u00e9ho partnera\/ku meni\u0165, ale umo\u017eni\u0165 mu\/jej r\u00e1s\u0165.Zn\u00e1my je v\u00fdrok: Mu\u017e d\u00fafa, \u017ee jeho \u017eena sa po svadbe nezmen\u00ed. M\u00fdli sa. \u017dena d\u00fafa, \u017ee mu\u017e sa po svadbe zmen\u00ed. M\u00fdli sa tie\u017e.Asi ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 nejak\u00fa predstavu o\u00a0tom, ak\u00fd m\u00e1 by\u0165 jeho partner. To v\u0161ak neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee by mal vn\u00fati\u0165 svojmu partnerovi\/ke svoju predstavu. Pr\u00e1ve naopak, nech mu d\u00e1 priestor na to, aby r\u00e1stol. Spr\u00e1vne slov\u00e1 pre t\u00fato \u010das\u0165 vz\u0165ahu s\u00fa PODPORA a\u00a0z\u00e1ujem o\u00a0partnera.\u00a06.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Realistick\u00e9 o\u010dak\u00e1vaniaAsi \u0165a\u017eko budeme o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165, \u017ee v\u0161etko, cel\u00fd vz\u0165ah prebehne bez prek\u00e1\u017eok, v\u00fdziev, len hladko a\u00a0\u0161\u0165astne. \u017divot je ako bonboni\u00e9ra, je zn\u00e1my v\u00fdrok Forresta Gumpa.\u00a0 Ale pre\u010do by sme napr\u00edklad, mali presta\u0165 \u010dasom vidie\u0165 dobr\u00e9 veci na svojom partnerovi a\u00a0viac si v\u0161\u00edma\u0165 tie zl\u00e9?Dobr\u00e9 treba h\u013eada\u0165 a\u00a0budova\u0165. V\u0161\u00edma\u0165 si a\u00a0ma\u0165 pozit\u00edvny postoj.Man\u017eelia m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 najlep\u0161\u00edmi priate\u013emi a\u00a0to na cel\u00fd a\u00a0spolo\u010dn\u00fd \u017eivot. Sta\u010d\u00ed sa rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 a\u00a0tak nejak sa vn\u00fatorne \u201enastavi\u0165\u201c.\u00a07.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Komunik\u00e1ciaNem\u00e9mu die\u0165a\u0165u ani vlastn\u00e1 mater nerozumie. Viem, je to trochu prehnan\u00e9 tvrdenie, ale svojou podstatou vystihuje tento probl\u00e9m. Nikto z\u00a0n\u00e1s nie je (chvalabohu) jasnovidec, aby videl \u010do druh\u00e9ho tr\u00e1pi, s\u00a0\u010d\u00edm nie je spokojn\u00fd. Preto treba ROZPR\u00c1VA\u0164. Ale aj PO\u010c\u00daVA\u0164, preto\u017ee samotn\u00e1 z\u00e1plava slov bez konkr\u00e9tnej inform\u00e1cie \u010dloveka len vy\u010derp\u00e1 a\u00a0znechut\u00ed.\u00a0Nu\u017e, ke\u010f chceme nie\u010do v\u00a0\u017eivote dosiahnu\u0165, mus\u00edme na tom pracova\u0165, venova\u0165 tomu \u00fasilie, \u010das, svoj intelekt… \u010di\u017ee sam\u00e9ho seba. A\u00a0vo vz\u0165ahoch to plat\u00ed na obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165. 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